tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2872253469852980151.post6379120902176230649..comments2023-01-17T03:35:09.329-05:00Comments on challah back girl: On Banning BossyUnknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2872253469852980151.post-3438757286027655702014-03-19T11:06:57.319-04:002014-03-19T11:06:57.319-04:00She is awesome. I have to remind her more.She is awesome. I have to remind her more.Princess Leanoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2872253469852980151.post-42389399488632965762014-03-18T11:03:20.626-04:002014-03-18T11:03:20.626-04:00So true! Plenty of men are disliked if they are bo...So true! Plenty of men are disliked if they are bossy rather than real leaders. <br /><br /><br />I'm all for schools being separated by gender, and I love your post. They have done so many studies citing the benefits of it. And your niece sounds awesome. :)katems@live.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2872253469852980151.post-10594709316729048072014-03-18T10:22:16.736-04:002014-03-18T10:22:16.736-04:00It is most definitely being oversimplified, and I ...It is most definitely being oversimplified, and I love your take. "Bossy" has negative connotations because it is not leadership. And a man who was "bossy" would simply be referred to as a SOB. Women should be flattered. <br /><br />As an aside, when boys are girls are educated separately, gender roles aren't as vehemently enforced. The tomboys in Bais Yaakovs are the top of the heap. I went into detail (along with linked articles) here: <br /><br />http://frumanista.blogspot.com/2013/03/girls-girly-and-otherwise.html<br /><br />By my family, however, if there is a niece who is "bossy," we consider that to be a plus, because she is taking care of things, worrying about her little siblings and getting them ready for the bus and making their lunches (she's 6). Good girl!Princess Leanoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2872253469852980151.post-51606083111043783842014-03-17T22:17:47.581-04:002014-03-17T22:17:47.581-04:00That's a very good point, Sharon. I definitely...That's a very good point, Sharon. I definitely think some women are afraid to assert themselves in case they are perceived as not being "nice," and I am all for banning that. Hope you had a lovely Purim! xokatems@live.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2872253469852980151.post-34631416507342130302014-03-17T21:52:53.174-04:002014-03-17T21:52:53.174-04:00Great topic. I was just talking to my friend about...Great topic. I was just talking to my friend about this. I told her nice doesn't always work in business but that doesn't mean she's not a nice person!<br />Hope all is well,<br />xo<br />SharonFashion-ishahttp://www.fashion-isha.comnoreply@blogger.com